I'm ranting but I'm ranting with a 'we must stop this happening again and again" hat on, not with my "judgey" hat on...even if it sometimes sounds like I stray into the Judgemental Tattooed Mummy zone.
This year already I have heard of too many children killed by dogs. Let's face it, one child killed by a dog is too many.
|A dog and her child|
One thing from the article really hit home " Even parents get annoyed and yell at their children, but we expect 100% good-nature from a dog?!" and that's the thing, we get annoyed, frustrated, angry, we can walk away, yell, send kids to their room, do all sorts of stuff that a dog cannot do; and a kid can annoy a dog in many ways! A child doesn't have to be cruel or naughty. They can fling their arms around a dog, put their face right up in the dogs face, they may wake a dog, squeal, jump, make a loud noise any of a thousand things that children do, can and do, annoy dogs.
Children need to learn to behave well around dogs, and all children should be supervised by an adult that has control over the dog at all times. Children are children until they are in their early teens. Many rescue centres won't rehome a dog to a family with children under 12 for this reason.
New parents need advice on dogs. Not just "introduce the baby carefully to the dog" that's just vague and wishy-washy. New parents need clear firm advice. NEVER leave a dog and baby along, not even for a few seconds. Don't allow a dog on the furniture (at the very least not near the baby/child and never unsupervised) and yes this means your 4 year old can't snuggle on the sofa with Fido while you are in the kitchen making dinner. Yes it's inconvenient. Not as inconvenient as a trip to A&E and a trip to the vet to euthanise a pet. Babies make odd movements, feeble movements, they squeal, they may smell like food, they are not something that many dogs have experience of, they can look like prey, or a toy or just a puppy that needs a shake to make it shut up! Dogs and babies need their own space. Get stairgates, they fit room doorways too! Get a playpen (for either dog or baby!) get a dog crate/cage. Keep either dog or baby with you.
I got angry with the BBC this morning as they went down the route of 'dangerous dogs' and 'banned breeds'. While a bigger dog can do more damage faster than a small one, apart from that they are all still dogs. And before you tell me a staffie...or a lab, or a spaniel, is better than a terrier or a chihuahua etc etc that is just as dangerous a propaganda! Because you are telling those silly irresponsible owners (oops judgey hat!) that a breed of dog is safe to be left with a child, and no dog is 100% safe. I hate photos of babies astride pitbulls with captions telling me the dog is a big softy. No child should be taught it's OK to clamber over any dog, its not fair to expect a dog to put up with that sort of treatment, you might get away with it for a week, a month, a year but why risk the day when your dog might finally snap.
Here is an excellent article on best ways to interact with a dog , and what not to do! If you have children and dogs, have a read - even if you think you know it all! I had two dogs for 15 years and I didn't know much at the start, there is always loads to learn. I didn't realise for years that dogs tolerate hugs, they don't like them! (see pic below - my daughter got away with a lick rather than a bite when she hugged our dog, we were lucky!)
No dog is 'safe' to be alone with a child or a baby. Any dog whether a particularly silly and friendly one or a slightly grumpy one needs to be under control and in almost all cases only the owner has that sort of control (even an adult can be attacked by dogs they have no authority over) And while it goes without saying really that a dog you have owned since it was a puppy is more likely to obey you, it's worth remembering that all dogs need to be trained! So Rule 1 is ensure you can control your dog and Rule 2 is ensure you are there when it's with a child. If you can't be there, keep them apart.
|Dog gets in a sneaky lick|
I really really don't want to read about another child or baby being killed by a dog, not this year, not any year.